It is quite evident from all the success stories of manifestation, that humans have an innate ability to materialize their innermost desires. From money to relationships, peoples’ lives are being changed as they bring into existence what they long for in an active conscious manner. And even when not consciously trying to manifest something, these thoughts eventually take shape without our realization.
The fact of life is – everything starts with our thoughts, followed by the belief attached to them. So if we are looking for a special relationship in our lives, manifestation acts as a pathway for us to ask the Universe for help and seek out what we desire. But this process is difficult, which is why here are a few tips that can make it easier for us to manifest our ideal relationship
1. Start With Clarity
When manifesting a relationship, you need to be as specific and clear as possible on the kind of partner or lover you wish to attract. Remember that the Universe delivers exactly what you ask so the more specific you are when manifesting the better the chances of attracting your ideal relationship will be.
Do you want a smart sexy or kind partner? Or what qualities are you looking for in your lover? You could even write a list of the traits, habits, or qualities of the specific person you’re manifesting in your relationship.
2. Love Yourself
Truly, this one sounds a no-brainer because perhaps you have read about it several times but when manifesting a relationship; you’ll need to love yourself first. No one is going to love you if you don’t love yourself anyway. You can manifest self love in order to be happier.
Start by loving, admiring, cherishing, and treating yourself. In a nutshell, do what you want your to-be partner to do for you. This is one powerful manifesting technique where you’re living as if you’ve already attracted your future partner.
3. Create a Space for Your Future Partner
Often, a big part of manifesting anything you want is acting as if you’re already attracting it. That’s why when manifesting money; it’s advisable to live as if you have already received the money. When manifesting a relationship with a specific person, you should create a space for your to-be partner.
You could do this by putting two pillows in your bed, or putting an empty drawer where your partner will be leaving his or her items. You also need to create a space in your daily activities for your partner.
For instance, you could set some days when you’ll be spending some good time with your future partner- either watching an interesting TV program or going shopping together.
4. Stop Speaking Negatively About Relationships
When manifesting a relationship with a specific person or when looking for your future partner, you’re going to encounter every kind of story about dating and relationships. People will tell you relationships don’t work. You must have heard the saying ‘all men are dogs” or “all women are bitches”
The truth is that it’s easy to complain about the other gender- their weight, age, etc. However, your thoughts can confuse the universe or keep you from manifesting true love. According to the Law of Attraction, you attract your reality through your feelings, beliefs, thoughts, actions, and overall energy.
You’ll attract that which you direct your energy and thoughts to. That means that if you speak negatively about relationships the Universe will respond by reflecting your negative thoughts and words to you. You might end up attracting dates that suck.
Start speaking positively about relationships. When you wake up, tell yourself many people are looking for love. There are so many people in happy relationships and many other positive things about relationships. It’s not easy to believe the statements you’re saying right away, but the more you say them the more you’ll start to believe them.
When someone tries to speak negatively about relationships, even if it’s your friend, you’d better stay away from them. This will help to avoid any negative talks or comments about relationships from anyone getting into your mind.
5. Be Thankful For The Love You Already Have in Your Life
Gratitude is a crucial aspect of manifesting a relationship. It makes you feel positive about your life and relationships. Look at the love you already have currently and be grateful for it. You have parents who love you, friends who want to be around you at all times, or even college-mates. Be grateful for all that. It’s a great way of vibrating emotions you want to connect to.
6. Remove the Thoughts of Rejection in Your Mind
It’s not easy to remove all thoughts of rejection from your mind especially if you have been hurt by rejection before. But you can change your mindset and think of rejection as a way for the universe to protect you from a toxic relationship so that you can get the real love of your life.
7. Align Your Thoughts and Beliefs to be in Total Agreement With What You Want
Make sure there is no disagreement around what you want. Your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and all elements that represent your entirety should be aligned with what you want. Reading manifesting love success stories would really help.
8. Trust That It’s Happening
The Law of Attraction states that when manifesting, the Universe has your back. As long as you have done all the above trust that the universe will deliver your wishes back to you. Keep practicing all the techniques above while reminding yourself that what you want is finding its way to you. Don’t bother yourself about the “how” and “when”.
Manifesting a Relationship: Final Thoughts
To wrap up things, the reality is that we’re always manifesting- and that’s the workings of the Law of Attraction. It states that “you’ll attract what you put your thoughts, beliefs, and energy into”. So when you want to manifest a relationship or manifest a specific person, follow the tips shared in this article. Also check out our recommended books if you want to learn more.