Manifestation is quite a popular and wide topic. With the ability to manifest a variety of things from the simple ones to the most complex that you could ever think of, it’s no wonder this is also a controversial topic.
But is manifesting a person bad? And if it is, how? Does talking about and planning to create a relationship with someone bring back karma and bad luck? Is it because we are “obsessed” or do we want it too much? Is the other person supposed to fall in love naturally, not through any influence of ours? Or is there something else going on?
Different opinions
When it comes to manifesting a specific person, there seem to be mixed opinions on whether or not this brings bad karma. Some people believe that by focusing too much on manifesting a certain person, you’re essentially taking the control out of the hands of the universe and putting it all onto yourself. This can backfire, as you may be opening yourself up to negative energy and attracting bad luck.
Others believe that manifesting a specific person is no different than any other manifestation and that as long as you’re sending out positive energy and staying focused on what you want, you’ll be just fine. There’s no need to obsess over the details, as the universe will work things out as they should.
What about us? What do we think?
Come to think of it. When you manifest a person, aren’t you taking away their free will? Is it not like you are forcing someone to do something that they are not ready for, or are not interested in doing? Manifesting someone and trying to make them love you is – for lack of a better word – manipulating their emotions.
If you have tried manipulating someone’s emotions before, you probably already know that it does not always end well.
But why is it not a good idea to manifest someone specific?
Most of the time, people who manifest are usually focusing on goals such as getting wealthy, having good health, being happy, and others. But when you set a goal of making a specific person fall in love with you, then things start to get a little bit weird.
They get weird for the following reasons:
1. It’s selfish to manifest someone specific
If you think of it, manifesting a specific person is like forcing them to be attracted to you. But if you care about someone, the best thing would be to let them live their life just as they wish. When you do something nice for them because you care about them, do it without expecting anything back. The universe always finds a way to pay you back, instead.
2. It’s not guaranteed that the relationship will work out
Even if you do manage to manifest a specific person and they do fall in love with you, it’s not guaranteed that the relationship will work out. There are so many factors that need to be considered, such as compatibility, interests, and others. Focusing on manifesting someone specific may divert your attention from looking for these things.
3. It’s a form of control
When you manifest a specific person, you are essentially trying to control their emotions and feelings. But love should never be forced – it should come naturally.
4. You might get attached to the outcome
The more you focus on manifesting someone specific, the more likely you are to get attached to the outcome. This can lead to disappointment and heartache if things don’t work out.
5. It’s a form of manipulation
Manifesting someone specific is also a way of manipulating their emotions. You’re using your own powers to try and make them do something that they may not be ready for or even interested in.
6. You’re putting all your eggs in one basket
When you manifest a specific person, you’re essentially narrowing down your options and hoping that this one person will be the right one for you. What if they’re not? What if they end up breaking your heart? It’s always better to have several options so that you can weigh them all out and make the best decision for yourself.
Final Thoughts
In general, it’s best to focus on manifesting love as opposed to manifesting a person. While at it, it’s required of you to create a positive mindset and surround yourself with positive people, which can make all the difference in manifesting. Keeping your hopes high but not going overboard is the key to success. Most importantly though, don’t forget that love is supposed to be natural and happen organically – if you try to force it, things may not go as planned. Be sure to stay positive and focus on what you want, rather than what you don’t want. In time, the universe will take care of the rest.